Hello, to start with, I've read some posts in this subreddit and I understand the prejudice against solo men here. I agree with you that it's very unpleasant and ruins the atmosphere when you're surrounded by a group of desperate guys with soft dicks In hand. Since my first visit, I don't have any specific expectations about the experience. My goal is to feel the atmosphere of such a club, chat with people, and see where it leads. I've chosen a club where a formal dress code is mandatory for men, so I hope that will ensure a higher level of 'audience.' I certainly don't plan to be pushy or aggressive, forcing myself on a couple or ruining anyone's evening.
So, let's move on to the question... As I mentioned in the title, are there any signals or gestures in this community (for example, eye contact...)? I wouldn't want to unintentionally commit some kind of faux pas. Do you have any tips for a first experience?
Just don’t be creepy, if a couple makes eye contact and smiles at you, approach them and say hi. Don’t just keep staring at them and following them around waiting for them to make contact with you.
Just go with no expectations. Engage people as if you were there just to meet people and laugh. If a couple likes you, you’ll know it
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