Hello! My wife and I have been married for 11 years and have been in a great place with our relationship and ourselves for at least 5 years now. In the last two years, we've been exploring kinks and it's been wonderful. The sex is great and we have been totally open with each other about what we like and don't like.

Recently my wife and I independently were discussing finding a couple that would be interested in swinging. We are new and want to go slow but know we are both interested in a couple scenarios: both wives/gfs blow both husbands/bf in succession, both wives/gf take turns pleasuring each other (my wife is bisexual) possibly while the men have sex with either their partner or the other girl.

My wife has been with multiple partners before me and loved it. She's bisexual. I'm very much into both scenarios. We both are and want to do this is a safe, comfortable way. Meeting men and women that we are comfortable with them and vice-versa.

Here's the question that I'm sure so maybe couples have also had...I am a lawyer and she's the head of the PTA. We are liberal people but don't like in the most progressive place (but still near two cities). Any general tips on kind of feeling out finding a willing man and/or woman or a couple? It may just always remain a fantasy but we are interested in running with it and seeing what happens. Thanks!