Hey all, so me (32F) and my partner (37M) met a husband & wife couple through feeld. It was our first meet and in their house. It appeared to go well enough without any super sparks. The other man suggested if we want to play with them? After a bit of communication, we all agreed for a softish swap (make out and above the waist without anything hardcore). We all agreed on this swap in different rooms. So me and him in one room and my partner and his girl in another. So this all was clearly communicated and I went with him and started making out. Here is the deal though, apparently his girl didn't even let me partner sit next to her, let alone touch her. She talked pointlessly a bit with him and then proceeded to her house chores. My partner felt very awkward and unwelcome, so he came to me and requested to leave which I wholeheartedly agreed. We firmly believe in both of us having fun and enjoying. The other male profusely apologized for his partner's behavior though. I felt a bit betrayed by this woman as if she just sort of deceived me into being with her man. Everything was agreed and communicated and she could've used that opportunity to be honest which she didn't. What do you all think ?