I wanted to share my experience with why we havent had any successful interactions with bi guys. I may come across as shallow, but please give me credit for being honest.

I wouldn't care if my hubby was bi, in fact I'd kinda love it. Not because the thought of MM sex turns me on, but because it would LOVE to have a triad type relationship, and im not bi, so we aren't getting that with a female. And my hubby would love some butt play, but it kinda grosses me out so I dont do it. I would love him to get that action from an enthusiastic man.

Our dynamic is that my hubby thinks I'm super hot and loves to share me with men who tell him how hot I am, kinda like letting a buddy drive your uber cool sports car. He gets off on watching them please me, and feels like a guy who's got really fun toy he gets to share with his buddies.

We've gone on several dates with bi single men, and the chemistry was all off. They would tell him I was hot, and they would love to hook up, but honestly, with all of them (the 3 that we have tried) it felt like their sexual energy was focused on him and i was more of an accessory to him.

That chemistry didn't work for either of us. The most important thing for me with single men is their chemistry with my hubby, but the attraction we want is a bromance, not sexual.

We have zero concerns that a bi guy would try to get my hubby to do something outside of his boundaries, but we just don't feel the enthusiasm from them that we feel from the straight men looking to hookup.

Weve experienced the same thing in the LS with bi ladies. Im straight, and its kinda a letdown for them. They would prefer to be with a couple me where they are getting some of the FF action, and since I'm not providing that, the experience is lacking compared to when they are having that vibe.

So i don't think its homophobia as often as some people think, I think its more that the vibe is off. At least that is what it has been for us.