This is no judgmental at all just very curious about the draw or why this is a thing.
We are a full swap couple that really enjoys the group play aspect. Intercourse with other is our least favorite part of swinging. Our sex life is amazing alone this is just seasoning.
We would like to know the draw or the reason why people play separately. Husbands or wives going out on dates with others without their spouse. Neither of us even think that sounds fun. Honest answers please so we can understand.
Couple reasons… (we swing with the same couple every time. I’d probably classify us more poly than swinging in this scenario but I digress) Scheduling and coordinating 2 people is way easier than 4. I spend more time with the other man than my spouse does with the other woman simply because we share a ton of hobbies and our respective spouses see the value in us having that relationship. It takes pressure off them for certain things, and allows us to accept our spouse for exactly who they are, resulting in far fewer arguments.
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