So I often find myself reading and interacting with topics in this subreddit because there is a big overlap with things I do however I am not a swinger and wondering if there is a community on reddit better suited to me?

I'm a single bi woman who has lots of very intentional casual sex, so topics here around sex in general, sex clubs etc are really interesting. I don't "swing" as such/don't play with couples but may do in the future. But for now I'm out there solo, have multiple FWBs and really enjoy low commitment casual sex. Sex is almost like a hobby for me.

I feel like there are very specific topics and concerns we solo casuals have, esp as women, and I was wondering if there was a sub better suited?

So there's this sub here, and perhaps the general r/sex sub too but that tends to be full of very young people, and I'm in my 40s so it feels a bit weird posting there. Bizarrely I found a lot of useful and relatable stuff in the hotwife sub. I also like the r/feeld sub (the ENM dating/swinging/hook-up app) but topics are quite strictly moderated, even though I see a lot of similar people to me on that sub.