Recently put up a profile as a solo bisexual (NB, but let's just say woman for simplicity). My live-in partner is not interested in group play right now. We have an open and poly relationship and I’m on SLS specifically bc I want to play with M/F couples. I want to set my expectations in line with the realities of how people use this website.

Most of my experiences with the app so far have been neutral to offputting.

For those of you using SLS, what kind of pace do you proceed at with a conversation, what are your expectations of people you’re chatting with? Do you want get-to-know-you convos about life in general or do you prefer to focus specifically on play? If you're managing a couple's account, when do you show your partner a profile? Have you met single folks or only couples using SLS?

Would you automatically assume that a solo bisexual who isn’t a man is a fake profile? Have you met any solo women using it? Everyone’s profiles say they’re looking for bisexual women “single females” etc. the simplest way to verify that I’m who I say I am would be to hop on a video call, but this guy who was certain my profile was fake (and yet still persisted in talking with me) didn’t want to do that. 🤷

I live in an area without clubs, munches, etc. and I’m relatively new to the area. So far SLS is feeling like any other dating website, but with a crappier interface, an overall absence of face pics, and a less trusting vibe.

Thanks for your input!