Okay. So I have been in part of each one of these type of meetings. I much more on premises parties. Although there are a couple hotel parties coming up that I am thinking i'm going to. I believe when I frequented the on premises clubs. It was easier to develop friendships and relationships. I didn't feel as if it were rolling the dice with the online meeting people. With the hotel parties there's a couple people I know that provide nice parties and take half the donation up front but the people I do not know I'd be sketchy with giving the money up front LOL.What's your opinions and which way do you prefer to meet people or be in the lifestyle? One day I'll make it to Hedonism