My partner (m) and I (f) have been swinging for a couple of years now. For context, I’m fully bi, known I’m bi since I was in middle school, and have casually dated woman in the past. (Not sure if that’s relevant or not) We’ve had many foursome mfmf’s and a few fmf’s. I stopped enjoying the fmf’s largely because we were meeting mostly pillow princesses or “bi for the guy” types and it just didn’t work for me anymore…. And then… We went to a swingers club and we bumped into this woman who is a complete smoke show. The woman everyone in the room was dying to talk to. European, worldly, sophisticated, intelligent, confident, the whole package. Once I calmed down my giggling to everything she said, we hit it off and find a room for fun (with my partner). Full three way fun. Mind blowing stuff I hope to look over and say to my partner when we’re old (do you remember her? And just wink and share a laugh about the good ol days) I am seriously hard crushing on her now. Obsessively… we have exchanged a few texts since this weekend. I can’t stop thinking about her! Total and complete limerence… I know the feeling will fade, sadly. My partner said he was fine with me having a gf but now I’m a little unsure given my feelings are so strong for this one. If he was crushing on a woman I’m sure I’d have to work on my feelings around it so not sure I should be a double standard. Any other woman out there had this happen? Full girl girl crush? Just ride it out and have fun? Block and burn to protect the relationship? Become a U-Haul les? lol