My wife and I are both bisexual. During sex/dirty talk, sometimes she has admitted that she has fantasies of watching me fuck another man. I usually respond by whispering in her ear a pretty graphic scenario of me hooking up with another man as we have sex and it results in some of her strongest orgasms.

She has never been with a woman and I really would like to see her explore her sexuality. I’ve told her similar fantasies of wanting to watch her with a women.

I think being with another couple and swapping the same gender parters would be such an enriching experience. Is this still considered swinging? I figure it’s not common here but does anyone have any similar experiences or advice for us?