My husband and I (30F) have been in the lifestyle for about a year now. We have been searching on an app for a guy to join us for some mfm fun.

On Saturday, I was so thrilled and shocked to see someone I know in real life (and have always found soooo attractive) liked our profile. I would never have guessed he would be on this app. Of course I matched with him! We had a very quick conversation on there about whatever we decide, we will make sure it is the best decision for all of us. We have had a great friendship in the past. I had asked him a question to continue the conversation on Saturday and he never replied. It's now Monday evening.

Should I message him again? Or just wait and see if he's interested enough to message back again. I don't want to seem desperate, I'm just so into this guy. We have a bit of a 'professional' relationship. I will be working with him next month for one day, so I'm thinking he should message sometime before then? Otherwise it might be kinda weird?