Hi, I have just a few questions. My spouse and I have been talking about doing more with our sexual experiences and we've talked about having sex with others or just having fun. How suitable are these resorts? Is it meant for the shy and newbie type people like myself and my spouse? Also, is penis size a big deal? I'm just under 8 inches and maybe 5 to 5 and 1/2 inches thick. I feel small compared to porn IMO etc Would I just be embarrassed the whole time?? I'm 6 feet 4 in and I'm decently built. My spouse is more worried about people being very touchy and grabby and not respectful. To be specific she would want people to actually stop if she says stop. What are everybody's thoughts? Thank you very much