Written by him

My GF and I had our first ever visit to a swinger club last weekend and also our first group session.

We briefly played with another couple. Nerves and too much alcohol got the better of me so I had a spot of performance anxiety. But our brief encounter allowed us to confirm that we were both ok with the other playing with a member of the opposite sex.

We discussed what to do next and have decided to start with threesomes for now. Obviously MMF will be easier to make happen than MFF so we are gonna start there this coming weekend.

I have a few questions regarding normal etiquette:

1. If I come first what do we do? Is it normal for them to carry on? I’m fine with that.
2. If she comes first what do we do? Does she just carry on playing with us looking to get us both off?
3. If he comes first does he hang around or just leave?

We are going to go back to the same club as last week. Last Saturday was a couples and single ladies night, we have been told that next Saturday will have plenty of single guys so we expect that the dynamic will be totally different.

Overall we were a bit disappointed that most couples seemed to just have sex with each other and we saw very very little mixing/swapping.