I'm (44f) totally straight. But there's this uber awesome chick that would like to mess around to my comfort level. But I'm not attracted to most women, though i do think she is exceptionally awesome and sexy. That being said, I'm not attracted to most men either, but if they get their hands on me in a skillful way, boom, all the sudden the attraction is there.

This has zero to do with being bi for the guy. I seem out of touch with what my kinks are until I am exposed to them and loving it. I dont know if being bi could be in the same category. The lady totally knows where I'm coming from, I am an over zealous communicator. Another side note, we have both already played exextensively together with each other's partners, so we are totally comfortable with each other in that atmosphere.

Has anyone never been interested in their same sex, then screwed around and loved it? Any pitfalls, bad etiquette type stuff, i should be aware of? Obviously i know about discussing boundaries, but just simple stuff that people might not think to mention cause they would assume the person would know not to, or to, do it?