My (36F) husband (42M) and I have been toying with the idea of dipping our toes in the lifestyle. We're primarily exhibitionist leaning, but I wouldn't be opposed to bringing another female into the mix. We have the opportunity this weekend to visit either PGC in Philly or Saints & Sinners in AC.

Which spot is more newbie friendly?

Also, what are the top 3 things I should expect when attending for the first time.

To add, I've been crawling around this sub for a few months now, as well as follow some prominent LS members on Instagram, so I feel like I have a pretty good idea of what to expect (Club scene with lots of open sex; Single Females are called Unicorns for a reason, so I wont get my hopes up too high on that front, etc.), but I feel like there have to be details that slipped through the cracks. So what are your top 3 things to expect?

Thanks in advanced.

I plan on wearing a fishnet dress with a sexy black one-piece underneath it, and plan on hubby wearing slacks or nice jeans and a nice short-sleeved button-up. Are these acceptable?