Holy shit people need to tone it down with the Nice Guy(TM) shit. Like we don’t owe you an immediate response. Hell we don’t owe you a response period. We don’t know you. We aren’t friends and even if we were we don’t owe you anything. Conversations fizzle out all the time and people don’t respond to our introduction messages either. Know what we do? Shrug our shoulders and move along.

I wish we were open with everyone about our lifestyle so I could give these assholes a piece of my mind or at least let their spouse know everything was going great until their husband get heated because I didn’t respond within 30 minutes while I was at work. As it is I’m not burning everything down. Just ignore, block, and move along.

BTW, if you’re sending clingy, needy Nice Guy(TM) messages you just took whatever chance you had at meeting up to ZERO. Huge red flag. Like how is someone going to trust you will respect their boundaries during a hook up?

I used to do group chats exclusively. Now I like one on ones with the husband (I’m also the husband) along with group chats. I want to see who he is when our wives aren’t in the room.