I read a bunch of posts from beginners or asking for reviews of this and that which is fine. But who out here is in the lifestyle and feels like they are crushing it?
My boyfriend and I just hit a year or so since we started. We have had so many experiences and met so many wonderful people and made friends we hang out with outside of swinging. We’ve been to clubs in three different states, hosted private parties, been invited to private parties, engaged in FMF threesomes, 4somes, 5somes, and then-somes. We really don’t even look for play partners anymore bc we’ve got so many established relationships with couples and singles. It’s to the point where people find us and reach out.
I’m just so excited and i want to shout from the rooftops why I’m most usually so happy and confident, but my involvement in the lifestyle is a secret 🤫.
Anyway, yes this was a shameless brag, but i do really want to read from other couples or singles who are in the lifestyle and having the absolute time of their lives!
Sometimes going to the same club if it is nearby enough is beneficial. You’ll meet regulars that way and people will start to recognize you.
It does help if both parties are unapologetic sluts 😝. It is what we love most about each other.
This is still killing it! Doesnt have to mean a new person every other day. I prefer our connections with trusted friends.
What does American Sign Language have to do with anything?
Same! I was thinking about all the fun I’ve had just this past week and was like i know i can’t be the only one out here having this much fun!
It’s not my criteria that matters. What’s your criteria? If you feel you are doing the damn thing and happy, then you are indeed crushing it!
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My boyfriend is 57. I’m 40.
I’m cute as hell though and he has serious daddy vibes that the young girls can’t get enough of. We’ve been told people just feel safe and welcome with us. Looks don’t hurt, but it’s def more about the vibe.