You know that BDSM test so many people post on their profiles? I always wonder how well that works out for them.

I HATE being degraded. And theres not a chance in hell my husband would watch another man degrading me, even if it was my kink, he wouldn't be able to stomach it.

I always look for the degrader percent when matching with people who have it on their profiles, and it is usually depressingly high. It's an instant no for me. I wonder how many people in the LS are open to a man degrading their wife as a kink.

I know there's quite a few people in the LS because the have an interest in BDSM their partner doesn't share. But I would think degrading specifically would be rare in swingers. Am I wrong on this? Are there some men that have a wife that wants to have another man degrade her? Or any wives that go to another man to be degraded?

I can see some men wanting to be degraded as their kink, and their wives allowing them to go to another woman for it, I just can't imagine hubbys being into it being done to their wives All of the LS men i have met are extremely vocal about making sure their wife is treated with respect. I know if it's an agreed upon kink, it's not disrespectful, but i still just can't picture it flying with anyone we have talked to.