So me and my partner recently decided to start dipping our toes in the swinger lifestyle. We signed up for a local swingers app, and so far it's been very hard finding anyone.
The amount of couple profiles that have 54 pics, 53 of which are of the female, and one is a very close up, terrible lighting, half-dick pic of the male is astounding. And these are not fake profiles, these are verified and paid accounts. So I usually find myself attracted to the female, but my F partner has to basically beg to see the male, and most of the time they're in objectively much worse shape then their female partner.
I know that's a common theme on this subreddit, but I guess I just didn't realise how bad it really is 😅.
We take profiles like that as someone’s got something to hide.
Yes we find many women in the 40s look amazing and the men have let themselves go. To each their own but, I need attraction so our couples are few and far between.
I agree it’s a problem. One thing I’d say is that men tend to be more visually oriented so maybe it often seems more important to post more of the female partner? I know it’s a generalization but is often true.
As for us, my wife’s body is just absolutely banging so it’s kinda just more fun to show her off. I’m fine, in decent shape, decent looking, but not nearly as visually stunning as her so maybe I just don’t feel like people would want to see as much of me
I always do include at least 3 pics of me as well. I’m not defending the alternative just kinda thinking out why a lot of couples probably post more of the girl.
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I didn’t say we post nothing of the male. Just less. I agree it is kind of a weird thing how people post way more of the wife than the husband. Just thinking out loud why some of that might be.