I don't understand what is happening with this couple we are seeing.

The chemistry is good between all 4 of us, which is really hard to find! I do enjoy dating couples when all 4 of us are getting along and matching, so I love hanging out with them.

We started seeing them in July, and the first time we actually fucked was early August. It was good. Not the absolute fuck fest we have with the singles, but a good time was had by all. They said it was the best sex they had ever had with another couple, and it was for us as well. No weirdness or insecurities, all dicks were hard, us girls all came, things flowed really well.

None of us are looking for any sort of monogamous situation, but we are all highly selective on the couples we screw. We are all progressive swingers, not into sport fucking. Our personalities are a great match. I don't think there have been any awkward moments, and I am pretty in tune (probably overly so) with feeling those.

These guys seem to be authentic cool sexy folks that are in our same age, attractiveness, and professionalism category, so we are not dealing with some lopsided situation. They have several times stated we are out of their league and they are flattered we are with them, but that's just words, we are all pretty equal.

Before we hooked up they had said they were really busy for the next few weeks. We are busy too. We totally get that. But we have now been hanging with them for about 2 months, and we've only screwed twice, and its been over a month.

Normally I would take this as a clear sign of disinterest, but they text us everyday, several times a day, and say the sweetest gushes things about how happy they are to have us in their lives and so on. We never start the conversation (mainly because I am trying to figure out if they even want to be with us since I would never go weeks between screwing people I am interested in unless we are out of town) but we always respond. We have repeatedly told them we'd love to just meet up and grab some drinks, it doesn't have to be an all night thing, or even get physical, we would just love to hang in person, but they keep saying they are just really busy.

But they arent too busy! They are often posting pictures of parties they are having with LS people, or being out at bars with LS groups. They are also often gaming online, which i know is a lot less work than going out, but if you can game for hours, I don't understand why you can't make time for some drinks.

We just saw them 2 weeks ago at an event they had invited us to, and we didn't hookup - wrong time of the month for me - but they were super sweet and all over us, and introduced us to people making it clear they were with us, but they still have no time for us. Not even scheduling out weeks in advance. I know they are having financial issues, but i don't see how that would interfere with them spending time with us, we would be happy to stay in.

I am at a total loss as to what is happening here. I know they like us and we like them. I'm confident sex was not the issue. Does anyone have any input on what could be going on?