I’ve been with my husband for the better part of 20 years and while I had a number of sexual partners before him, he’s only the 2nd guy who ever went down on me and the only guy to ever make me cum. I have a very hard time orgasming from oral and I’ve never had an orgasm from PIV. I’m worried that I’m not going to be able to orgasm within the LS. We’ve been with 3 other couples so far and I’ve loved the experiences but it’s not like the guys went down on me long enough to make me cum. Plus, I’m somewhat embarrassed at how long it takes me to cum from it and my husband really knows 1) it takes a while and 2) the right way to eat me out. I do have a vibrator I bring with me but I want to be able to experience having another man (or woman) bring me to orgasm.

Am I alone? Are there other women who can’t cum super easily or who’ve never cum with another partner? Are there ways to help myself orgasm more easily?