Hi everyone! Thought about posting this to find out if anyone has felt the same and how they dealt with it if they have.

My wife and myself had intercourse with another couple which I felt it was a nice experience. However, after we had sex I felt I was playing with a threesome with my wife being the unicorn so I felt a little left out.

I put some thought to it and I realized I was expecting to be the one getting all the attention which I know it does not help, and also during the last few encounters I experienced ‘lazy dick’ and so I did not enjoy the experience as much as I would like.

Initially I thought I started to have erectile disfunction, but realized that I was performing just fine when having sex with my wife so this is not an issue, but I do get anxiety when being at orgies which has discouraged my wife to keep swinging.

Before my wife, I did not have these kind of issues in the lifestyle so I figured it has something to do with my feelings for her and even I got the crazy idea that part of the issue is too many of her hormones in my body given I do a lot of oral sex to her, and even tjough she does not drink my cum at all she gets a good dosis of it inside her. And so I stopped performing oral sex to her to see if I feel different somehow.

We are meeting a friend of mine soon for a MFM soon, so I want to get my mind straight to be able to enjoy the experience as much as I know I do.

Any thoughts or suggestions will ge greatly appreciated.