My husband and I were with a couple for a while. It didn’t work out between my husband and the other wife. The guy called me on the phone to let us know that there was no connection. Since he and I had an amazing connection, I asked if they play separately. He said they don’t. After the phone call I messaged them something I had remembered that I didn’t get to say on the phone but I think she was offended by the “do you play separately” question and we were ghosted. Did I do something wrong by asking?? Idk how else I would have found out if their status changed. Peoples status’ change sometimes. Mine and my husbands changed within the last year, and they wouldn’t have known unless we told them or if they had asked. I certainly would not have been offended if they asked if we play separately and if our answer was no. But aitah??