Pretty much everything I've read on being a better lover as a female focuses on being enthusiastic and enjoying the experience. I'm a pretty active lover (when the chemistry is right), but I tend to believe if I had an amazing time, the guy probably did as well.

I don't think women are wired quite the same way, while of course I really want the man to enjoy himself, the main basis on if I am going to hookup with a man again or not is based off of if I liked the way he touched me. But maybe that's not the norm.

On the physical side only, what determines if you will or will not hookup with a someone again? For this post I'm not talking about things like respect and personality matches, obviously those are hugely important, but this question is for the physical side of things only.

Or let's say you have a kink, like being a dom, and the woman is not a sub, would that make it so you would not really want to hookup again?