I searched the sub and read what has previously been asked about this subject. š I need more specific help.
So, hi. First of all, I know the consensus on the sub is a minimum of five (or six, depending on the person) makes an orgy. We recently had a group play situation with three couples. So, Iām checking the orgy box off my fuck-it list. šš¼
The first round was very fluid with lots of combinations. Hands and mouths and pussies and dicks were all over the place. It was super hot and fun and we really enjoyed it. The ladies played, we all swapped couplesā¦. chefās kiss. 10 out of 10. The second round was different. Not as fluid.
Here are my questions:
During a group dynamic of three couples or more, how do you suggest a change up of partners?
Is it rude to suggest a change? Do the guys do this? The ladies? Either?
Do you wait until a ācoupleā is done playing and then suggest a change?
If not, what is the best way to interject?
If the one you are paired off cums and is spent, is it okay to jump in with two others going at it?
Iām all about consent and we all were in agreement about the group dynamic. But I almost felt it was rude to suggest a change up, or to jump in when it was like the three couples were paired up in this round. Is this a bad mindset? Do I tap on another guys back as he is railing someone else and say- oooh my turn next? I also donāt want someone to lose their mojo. Iām brand new to this dynamic, so I wanted to ask my pros on this board.
Give me all the group play etiquette, please. Iām just so nice and kinda quiet and donāt want to hurt anyoneās feelings, but also want to mix it up during play. Maybe I need to be more assertive, but have no idea how assertive to be during play since we have only been full swap since July.
Thanks for helping your girl out. I donāt want to be that person who awkwardly fumbles during play. This LS thing has a learning curve. But I also donāt want to be sitting there alone, or for anyone to feel ānot includedā once a group situation starts.
Thanks! š
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 5 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/Swingers/co...