I searched the sub and read what has been previously asked about this subject. 😇 I need more specific help.

So hi. We recently had a group play situation with three couples. The first round was very fluid with lots of combinations. Hands and mouths and tongues and dicks were all over the place. It was super hot and fun and we really enjoyed it. The ladies played, we all swapped couples…. chef’s kiss.

During a group dynamic of three couples or more, how do you suggest a change up of partners?

Is it rude to suggest a change? Does the guys do this? The ladies?

Do you wait until a ‘couple’ is done playing and then jump in?

I’m all about consent and we all were in agreement about the group dynamic. But I almost felt it was rude to suggest a change up. Is this a bad mindset? Like do I tap on another guys back as he is railing someone else and say- oooh my turn next? I’m new to this dynamic. So wanted to ask my pros on this board.

Give me all the group play etiquette, please. I’m just so nice and kinda quiet and don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but also want to mix it up during play. Maybe I need to be more assertive, but have no idea how assertive to be during play since we have only been full swap since July.

Thanks! 😊