We end up talking with so many couples where they end up telling us the wife isn’t playing. I realize it’s basically wife poaching. This happens so much it’s hard not to feel like the straight wives just don’t want to play with me. My wife is very attractive. She’s slim and takes care of her body and spends a lot of time making herself look good. I really try to do the same but I get rejected by so many women it’s hard not to feel like I’m just not attractive. I’m thin and not out of shape looking. In our 9 months of this we’ve only had two times we were able to swap, out of trying with way more couples than that. Basically, how do you deal with feeling like you’re not attractive after other people constantly reject you but not your spouse.