The guy I'm seeing was previously married and they were active in the LS. I've never been in it and really never thought about it or knew about it before meeting him. Although we have strong feelings for each other, we haven't been able to get too close for feat of this not working because I may not be able to get into the LS. I'm not opposed, but he won't talk to me much about what he wants. Just says it's always different. I've learned more about swinging from reading all your posts than from him. He asked me if I thought it would be a terrible idea to try now and I said absolutely. I don't feel we've built that trust, that connection and we definitely don't seem to have the communication. I don't know how I'll feel about it all, I know I'd need to go slow and I know I need that full connection between us. I think because he's lived it, it's easy for his brain to jump on. Not realizing I know nothing, I have to discuss boundaries, I need to know what it's like. I'm not sure how to get that conversation rolling with him.

Anyone else live the LS, found themselves single and brought a newbie on in later?