Alright ladies, this one’s for you. How often are you the one taking one for the team. I get that there’s a whole waiting list of dick lined up, ripe for your choosing…but how often have you compromised?
I ask this because my wife is smoking hot. Whereas I am mostly just alright (although I’m also a delight). We seldom get anyone contacting us, aside from single M, even when we post we’re looking. So I can’t help but wonder, alright I know, I’m the weakest link of the two. Should I be assuming that they’re taking one for the team? Or that with the absolute sea of dicks out there, no woman in their right mind would bite the bullet? I’m just trying to help increase our odds.
So, as a female we have a rule that “she doesn’t take one for the team” at the end of the day my attraction to the male makes or breaks our decision to play or not.
My hubs loves women of all shapes and sizes, me I have more of a “type.” I tend to not stray much from my type.
I also find online sucks, most men look better in person than in photos so if this is your main outlet this is part of the issue. Woman are more attracted to the whole person where men are very visual.
Sounds like you are out hunting and not exploring each other’s pleasure. Perhaps that can turn off people.
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Find a club! Go be in that sexually charged atmosphere. The clubs we go to have their own website with almost a FB style wall for posting pics and meeting people. You guys are a good looking couple and would see the swinging world in person is way different than online.