Hello, we are an early fifties couple, kids getting close to going off to college. We have been married for twenty two years, and have been taking about ways to spice things up. We have talked about looking for a couple that might become sex friends. The thing is we are in positions that we could easily lose our jobs if we were to be posting ourselves online, so we avoid swinger sites. We have discussed ways to meet others but not really sure how. We often notice couples will approach us at vineyards and sometimes bars, and be friendly and maybe flirty, but we have no idea if they have any interest past just some brief conversation with another couple, and we don’t want to come off as weird. So, does anyone in this lifestyle approach other couples in a non swinger scenario to feel them out? If so , are there any clues in your conversations or approach that would signal, hey we want to get funky with you. We are clueless but very interested.
Oh and the statement “spice up our sex life” makes most experienced swingers run the other way😂
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Oh and the statement “spice up our sex life” makes most experienced swingers run the other way😂