The Me Too movement went down a few pegs for me with Louie CK - who literally asked the women if he could masterbate in front of them - and they all said yes, and then presented him as monster for having the audacity to have asked. Even if he was a more well known comedian, i think it was on the women to say no (he wasn't any of their bosses or anything, just a more well known peer)

But taking a lesson from that, I'm always worried about my hubby touching women at first, even when they say yes, and he ALWAYS asks, it's one of our hard and fast rules. I don't think he is the best at reading body language, and i think I read too much into discomfort I sometimes worry I see the ladies having, but where we have landed is if he asks and they say it's cool, it should be cool until they say no, right?

I've only had LS men be very respectful, I feel like it's a very safe space for me. When starting the conversation they always ask about boundaries and my universal response is "stay out of my ass, and other than that everything is good to try, and if I'm not liking it I'll let you know"

How does everyone manage the consent thing? Have you found the LS to be a safe space? If not, we're you verbalizing no, and someone still didn't stop, or were you uncomfortable to say no?