Husband and I are new to the LS. He's very supportive of what I need for all of this to workout. We've been looking for single men for now.

Sex club was great the couple of times we went. Unfortunately due to location we can't go very often. So now we're trying the online route.

My question is weather or not my needs/wants are too much for single men. There have been a couple of younger men 25/26 (I'm 40) who I have been interested in talking to. They haven't been local and I've enjoyed the exchange of videos/pics and has made me more comfortable showing myself to another man who isn't my husband. Since this guy isn't nearby is it too much for me to ask of him to kinda be friends? Texting here and there? Nothing like a dating relationship or anything but it's an unfamiliar feeling of having sex on cam for him and then the next day there isn't just isn't much regular texting. We're planning on meeting in person and I'd like to get to know him before that.

Am I asking too much from a single man to be cool with me as friends also?

(I don't really have female friends and always worked in a male dom field. Men have pretty much been my besties)

Thank you for any insight!