My husband and I have been together 11 yrs (married almost 5) and are both 32. We started out very vanilla and have gradually gotten freakier over the years. We are in a place where we want to take things to the next level and are entertaining the idea of swinging. We have an amazing time together in every aspect. I truly believe he is the ying to my yang! Don’t get me wrong we have had ups and downs. 😂 However at this point in our lives our communication is top notch and we have no problem discussing fantasies and possible sexual scenarios. For those of you in this lifestyle, I’m wondering if it ever threw things off track for you? I would hate to hinder what we have but I also think it could bring us even closer! I know I’m probably overthinking but I’d love to hear your thoughts. Will it bring us closer or could it hurt the amazing thing we’ve had going so many years?
It's important to take time and keep yourselves at the forefront of your sex lives while also exploring indulgences. That'd be the only thing I'd say. It adds a massive layer of spice, yes. Doing nights to focus on the two of you is just more significant. The level of trust it takes to allow your partner to openly admit to wanting to fuck someone and then feeling them still show you love back, is very intimate. The bond in a swinger couple is very deep and passionate, contrary to what society as a whole may think.
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