I recently discovered the world of swinger couples on X (formerly Twitter). I decided to create an account on X to see what it had to offer, and I started following some couples who seemed legit, either because they have a ton of followers or because they interact a lot with other couples. I sent a few proposals as a single to 2 or 3 couples, and I was lucky enough to get a response from one. Since I go to the gym a lot, my proposal and photos were successful, and she gave me her phone number, but the date didn't happen.

Yesterday, I tried my luck again, and she asked for a proposal again. This time, she said she liked the plan! She gave me her number again, but I already had it. When I messaged her, she said, "If you already had my number, why didn't you text me? If I gave it to you once, it's because I'm interested," which I think is a good sign. We talked very little and already agreed on a restaurant, date, and time. It's a couple, but she mentioned that her husband is very busy, so she'd be going alone. This seems a bit suspicious, right? It feels too good to be true. I'm 100% sure it's a real swinger couple, but this last part is weird I think. We agreed to have dinner and arrive separately, but she ended with the classic, "If something more happens after dinner, we'll go together (to a motel)”

I need your advice on the following: Do you think she's really open to something more, or is she just going out with me for a free dinner? Its also a kinda expensive restaurant so I thinks thats another factor of why she said yes (maybe)? How should I behave exactly? What should I expect?