Hello everyone,

My wife and I are looking for some advice on how to approach swinging for the first time. We’re both in our 30s (I’m 31, she’s 28), and while we’ve never done anything like this before, we’ve recently been discussing the idea. We’re both good-looking and have been curious about exploring new experiences.

I’ve always been interested in swinging but hadn’t brought it up with my wife until recently. After some discussions, she’s open to the idea, but she prefers that we try it in another country. We’re from Belgium and have considered going to Mallorca to give it a shot.

We both agree that trying swinging could be a great experience, but here’s the twist: my wife isn’t comfortable with the idea of watching me with another woman. So, we’ve decided that we’d like to find another couple and swap partners, but we’re planning to do it in separate rooms to avoid watching each other.

My questions are: - Is this approach okay for a first-time experience in the swinging community? - How do you find other couples who are interested in this kind of arrangement? - What are some tips for navigating this experience smoothly?

Any advice or experiences you could share would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!