Lately I’ve had a few meet ups with newer couples and it’s a little frustrating. Everything is great until the husband can’t stay hard or cums.In 3 cases (all different couples) this year fun was ended short.

First one husband couldn’t stay hard esp after cumming, I had to sit naked for like an hour waiting for him bc he didn’t want her and I playing alone.

Second time, due to lack of staying hard the husband had me leave before I finished, no warning or timer or anything. Later he said he wished he let me cum…

3rd time was this weekend. Again he struggled to stay hard esp after cumming. He told me serval times before the meet he hoped she’d cum from my cock. She was bent over sucking him, I was fucking her and she squirted. I almost came but was trying to hold off. He basically said they were done and asked me to leave right then, was literally caught off guard. I leave (and never push to stay), 30 min into my drive they call me back. He tells me he wants me to fuck her. I come back and literally he won’t let me fuck her, the whole time he does.. half the time I’m sitting next to her on the bed naked honestly bored lol. She did suck me off during it which was great.

Like I get post cum clarity and jealousy but it seems like many couples just aren’t ready? In every case the wife was having a great time, I didn’t do any weird things, I’m always respectful. Is this just a matter of finding the right match? Or is this just something that I should be used to happening. I swear after years of playing all the sudden this is coming up and never did before.