There's this one guy that is the most phenomenal lover I have ever encountered (and my sample size is not small). Form our first date, to our first threesome with him to our last time with him bringing an awesome chick for my hubby, everything this guy does physically redefines perfection. I love skilled pleasure doms!!!

Problem is, he is the flakiest Casanova ever. Not counting the first date (I think all Casanovas show up for the first date) he has stood us up 5 out of 7 times. Only one time did he bother sending a text the morning of saying he wasn't going to make it. Every other time we've sent a text morning of, and just been ghosted.

This includes times we spent over $300 on a hotel (confirmed the day before and said we needed to cancel now for the refund if he was going to cancel, he said we definitely on, then ghosted us next day) asking us to go to a swinger party with him, where we had to join a group, than get verified with their kik group to get instructions to get entrance, ghosted us morning of, and then several other annoying making plans, confirming plans, then ghosting us day of.

I'm sure we are getting dumped for better offers (all the people we see him with are gorgeous OF content creators or hot single women) but it is still beyond obnoxious. At first I was like, I'm not dealing with this, I have too much self respect to be treated this way - but my hubby kept pushing dates with him on me, and since our first hookup I've decided I'll take what I can get when I can get it, I even told him to put us on his booty call list, I'll show up with barely any notice (not sexy I know, but I've moved beyond giving a damn).

I have a really hard time finding hookups that I am satisfied with, statistically, I would hookup with less than 1/4 of the people we have been with a second time. So in a way, his stats of actually showing up 5/7, have given me a better time than the people that have shown up, but I haven't had fun playing with.

Anyone else have a hookup that constantly irritates them, but is so worth when you actually get together?