My hubby has always really hard time with it. He's only cum with one other woman, and it was after about 5 dates and several hookups. He ALWAYS enjoys the hook up, but he's aggravated he can't finish. I think the biggest part of that is he is worried that he is disappointing his partners. I kinda agree, I know it's not always going to happen, but things don't really feel complete if everyone doesn't get off.

I think it's a very different thing for orgasming and us ladies. If I'm with someone who's got the right moves and chemistry, I'm getting off a bunch of times, if not it's just not happening. I need both pieces in place for me to enjoy the experience. I should probably start faking em, because I know the men leave feeling disgruntled if they know i didn't get off.

I'd love to hear other people's thoughts on if they are able to pop easily, and how important they feel it is for their hookup to get off.