I imagine like many LS couples we have local FWBs, we have the definite vanilla friends, and then there are the unknowns. A few couples that we hang out with in a 'vanilla way' are attractive to us, act flirty, and the M is suggestive, the F doesn't give a vibe either way, but neither outright open about LS interest. We've heard (rumor??) that they are LS, but want to respect and not offend them if they aren't, and especially don't want to screw-up any future vanilla-ish nights out. We keep our personal LS activity 100% discrete, and respect that from our local FWBs, and reciprocate the same (smaller community, lots of judgement, gossip mongers). Most of our LS activity is out of town/vacations for these reasons.

So to the point...Outside of LS resorts we've always been the one who are approached for LS play. We now find ourselves in unfamiliar water being the inquiring couple to suggest taking a friendship to a more FWB level. What advice can you share to respectfully bring up the LS conversation without completely disrespecting/offending the other couple, or potentially ruining a fun hang-out relationship. Thanks for the advice.