I've been reflecting on what truly excites me in this LS, and I realized that while the physical aspect is, of course, incredibly hot and sexy (and the biggest reason I am into this), emotional stimulation plays a huge role for me as well - mostly with the men. The thrill I get isn't just from the encounter itself but from the entire journey leading up to it—the flirtation, the chase, the build-up, the dirty talk and picture swaps, and the anticipation. That's where the real excitement lies for me when it comes to finding a M/MF to play with. When it comes to F, I have a completely different frame of mind, and all I think of is a nice set of titties and beautiful, kissable pussy, and nice soft kissable lips.

When the element of mental stimulation falls short or goes away before an encounter with a guy, I find it hard to remain worked up. I tell my husband the same thing: “you want to fuck my pussy, you also have fuck my brain”.

I know we're all different, and what works for one person might not work for another. But I'm curious if anyone else feels the same way? Does the mental stimulation play a significant role in your excitement too? Do men feel like they are crossing a line when it comes to flirting and dirty talk, even when they are told it is ok by the couple?

Curious to hear your thoughts!