So me and my partner have been dating for a little over a month. The first time he took me to the playhouse he goes to we met a girl who is also partnered. She wanted to play, I didn't want to play that day. So I told him to go ahead. He did go play alittle but no sex. Then this past weekend we went back. She happened to show up. She definitely had it in her mind to play with him as she had said she to him she was hoping he would be there. She was more aggressive this time, literally pushing me off to the side. Taking up 90% of the space with him. He kept pulling me back, kissing me, touching. She then asked to go upstairs, I was a little uncomfortable me and him talked. I said I didn't have an attraction to her. I like girls, but it depends on the girl. I don't just play with girls to play with girls. He said I didn't have to play with her. That he would play with both of us. So we go she again is making it difficult to touch him etc... he sees that I am uncomfortable and stops with her moves to me and finished with me. Now I will give her the benefit this time that she doesn't know we are dating. But if it happens again after she is made aware. I feel that she is being disrespectful of our relationship. My girl friend says don't say he can't play with her. Cause if you are open you don't want to do 1 pussy policy just as I don't want him to say 1 penis policy. But I don't agree,just cause your open in your relationship doesn't meann you can't say someone who doesn't respect your relationship is a no go. What is everyone else's opinion on this. Has anyone else veto someone cause of lack of respect for their relationship?