Hey all! I know this is a common occurance in the LS but I just wanted to see how you guys handle it. First some background: We (45M, 47F) met a couple at a party. The lady was great looking and the guy good enough for us to give it a shot, so we played with them that night. We really got along with the girl. So much so that she kept saying how she'd love to have a threesome with just her and us. The guy on the other hand... Just wasn't my wife's style. I know everyone has their thing but he was more aggressive and a little rougher than my wife likes and at the end, for her, he just came across a little creepy. .

So of course, we'd like to see her again, but not him. He did reach out later and gave us her number but not his (he messeged us on Kasidie). Based on that and her saying that she'd like to have a threesome with us, it sounds like they probably also play separately, but we're not 100% sure. She's reached out a handful of times to see what we had going on but our schedules have never matched. That said, she always says "we" and when they went to a party a couple weeks back that we didn't go to she told us "we missed you at the party". So on the other hand it sounds like he does want to be involved or at least that they're planning on the four of us getting together again.

I know if we see them at a party again, we'd probably be able to steal her away and play with just her, but how do we tell her that even if we get together outside of a party that we're only interested in her? Do you think it makes a difference if it comes from me or my wife?

Grateful for any advice you can throw our way!