Fortunately me and my hubby haven't really encountered much in the way of getting jealous of each other, but I don't love seeing the people we are hooking up with flirting with other couples.
I saw a quote once that said "I don't get jealous, I get turned off" and I think that is a more accurate representation of what I feel. If I'm at an event with people that I have hooked up with before, and would like to hook up with again, I am completely turned off by watching them pick up on other couples, to the point I am just not interested in playing with them again.
I assume people doing this for sport do not likely have this same reaction, but do other progressive swingers feel something similar?
Makes no sense to me, the whole point of swinging is to have different partners. If I’m not even having exclusive sex with my partner why would another couple expect me to make them exclusive?
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You can have both, we have multiple couples we’ve played with many times and consider friends. Sometimes it’s juts a one and done for whatever reason. Either way we’re still going to be on the lookout for new people to play with.