So my hubs and I have been in the LS for about a year, but in the kink world for a lot longer than that. I've noticed a pattern happening recently where it seems that the husband/male half of a couple is ALL. IN. on playing with me, but his female partner/wife is not attracted to my hubs. This has happened at least 3 times this summer.
My hubs is not conventionally attractive but he's NOT ugly. He's also very charming! I don't have any clue why women aren't giving him a chance. It's really starting to affect his self-esteem. Not to toot my own horn, but my inbox is never empty, however it seems like the female half of these couples aren't interested in my hubs.
Is this normal? Just part of the process? Help!
You mention your and his inbox, sounds like online has been your mainstay. Find a club, there’s all kinds of shapes and sizes and taste there. Some more than others. We have 3 clubs in travel distance two of them are what we would call very “body positive”
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