My GF and I (both 41) are looking to get into the lifestyle. I’ve been to clubs/resorts in the past, but only as a single man. She is completely new, but very eager to try it out. We live in MN, so there are no clubs in our area. She’s been searching on Reddit and a couple apps, but hasn’t had any luck so far. I’ve offered to help, but she seems to want to do it on her own. It’s been several months now and she’s been feeling defeated since she hasn’t been able to find anyone for us yet. I have a few extra pounds, but she’s in great shape. She’s had a lot of single men reach out, but we’re only interested in couples or single women. She’s also had some couples reach out but said she’s not into the guy in those cases. Any advice to help her out? I’ve made it clear that I’m patient and happy to wait for the right situation. But she puts pressure on herself and feels like she’s failing because she hasn’t made it happen yet.