We've always play together, even though we are very new to this, my wife when out with a guy alone, but only to meet and a drink, small kiss at the end. But I felt a little jealousy instead of excitement, the guy might not be into MFM, I ask her if she want it to go again alone, she said yes, but only if I'm OK with it, she will respect my desicion, I feel strange and a bit jealous,not sure how to handles this or if anyone else have gone through this
Solo play is the Lifestyle on advanced mode. Make sure you have some serious guardrails up.
Before letting her go and do that, how does she feel about you dating and maybe playing with other women while she is at home
We used to play solo then decided to play as a couple, so it is a bit in reverse. In talking though it playing together made a lot more sense (and ease) and is more fun for both of us. It definitely takes a high level of maturity and confidence and deep connection, even then there are moments of anxiety and fear which in the end definitely was not worth it for us. We also know couples who only play solo and it works very well for them. I think clearly knowing and connecting on what solo play is and also what it is not going to be is super important
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