So I was recently chatting with 2 couples, one from NY the other from NJ. One reached out to me and the other I had messaged a month before and they had finally gotten around to my message and responded positivity.

NY couple starts of great they liked what I had in my profile and requested that I open some pictures for them to see more which I did. It was indicated that I was speaking to the guy who was polite and wanting to find someone for her pleasure.

That said they were not on SLS regularly so telegram was decided upon as our communication method.

Right away I was sent pictures of the wife and pictures of them both. They liked my pictures I complimented theirs as well things are going great. Shortly after it was indicated that she was now doing the chatting and we were enjoying the conversations

NJ starts of chatting with the guy, very first question…. How hung was I wanted to see pictures i obliged.

Wants to chat offline sends number. We start chatting the next day ( not using my regular phone I don’t give out my number unless I’m sure I want to meet).

Seems cool tells me about his wife what’s there interested in doing likes and dislikes Inbetween regular talk we seem to hit it off.

Suddenly he decides I’m not real main reason apparently I don’t sound black in my texts 🚩. This is one I’ve never heard before seems black guys from NY are from the hood or at least talk that way.

I laugh it off he can’t be serious right?? 🤔

NY She asks to meet for drinks after we both get back from trips, time and place decided let’s do it.

NJ has no face pictures of his wife on SLS just a pair of legs and ass in one shot, how about letting me have a look at her? Let’s move to telegram. Sends a headless shot of someone holders piece of paper with my name in it in a dress that gives no indication of how her body lol at all. Claims she’s drop dead gorgeous 🤔

When I inform him that’s there’s no way I can gauge if I’m attracted to her from what I’ve been sent he claims he’s being protective of their identity and that I show study up on law and better yet he won’t bow down to my “bbc” demands like other white men

I never responded after that, Why bother 🤷‍♂️

NY Night of meet up everybody excited no promises made to play on first meet but she says she might feel differently after talking in person

I message them I just got out of the train station I’ll be there soon ………….

Telegram chat suddenly disappears poof like it was all a dream. Ok this must be a poor service thing or phone right I arrive at the location and nope there not there no clue if they ever were 😱 WTF

Anyway I can’t talk to my vanilla friends about these things so hence telling my story here. It’s actually my first time being ghosted so all around strange behavior. If I had gotten to the place and they didn’t like what they saw and decided to leave it would have been rude but fine.

Don’t know if they were just playing, got cold feet or what really happened

What’s your Red flags for cutting the conversation?

Also how do you couples feel about showing pictures of your faces before meeting?