I would have assumed that my hubby would pick guys that were maybe not quite as handsome as he is. But it's the opposite. When we are looking for thirds for our MFMs, my hubby only wants Adonis types playing with me. I think he might have stag/vixen tendencies I'm trying to cultivate...

He has different expectations for couples, but when it comes to the single guys, he's exceedingly picky.

Hypothetically, if I was able to go in a room and choose any woman for my hubby to play with, or get a little FMF action with, I would not pick the most gorgeous woman in the room. I also wouldn't want anyone dowdy, but I don't think I would choose someone I felt like a plain jane next to.

I'm curious if bi women feel different since they might be interested in playing with her as well.

Obviously there's a ton more involved with matching with couples than what I've stated, but if there wasn't, and you could pick any woman for your mate (or for joint threesome action), which way would you go?