As a single male I’ve encountered many different couples and different situations.

Recently I reached out to a couple on SLS and they replied with an interesting response.

“We are looking for a single who knows his role as third party well, is a gentleman and solvent because if he wants to have a glass of wine or simply go for a coffee or a hotel, all the expenses are on you.”

“We do not charge, we do not pay, everything is for the enjoyment of good sex as long as there is chemistry and mutual attraction”

I was also told that they do not speak English.

I’ve been enjoying this lifestyle for more than 15 years and never have I had a couple or anyone for that matter, require me to foot the bill for our meetings and anything that followed.

I’ve paid for my own drinks couples usually pay for their own. With the exception of if I meet the wife/girlfriend alone at the lobby bar then I’m happy to pay for our drinks but many times she either paid or the husband already had it added to their tab etc. They either already have a room or we find one and split the bill.

I know people with rush to say “ you’re a dime a dozen” etc but guess what I’m not, and even if I was some newbie with no experience I’d still feel like I was paying for sex by being told to pay for everything. Or worse they get free drinks and maybe a meal and then conveniently decide the vibes not there 😱

Just my opinion looking to get those of everybody else

Who pays to play?