My partner and I recently have begun to dip our toes into ethical non-monogamy, but we have been involved in the BDSM community for a long time. We have had some recent success finding folks to play with but overall I am curious how swingers view people from the BDSM/kink community.
We have noticed some definite cultural differences.
The kink events we attend seem to not appreciate swinging. It’s frustrating.
Well you can do both. We do all kinds of fun shit.
Not your comment specifically… I’m adding to the sentiment not critiquing you.
The kinkiest I’ve seen some swingers get is light impact play, but generally vanilla beyond that. I consider swinging is physical, kink is mental. Both must involve clear communication and respect of boundaries.
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I don’t understand this.. like at all. BDSM to me is like wanting a 6 course meal at a fancy restaurant. I’m going to thoroughly enjoy my appetizers, my hand crafted cocktail, and the heavily butter basted filet… but what I’m not going to do is smack talk the mom and pop shop that’s popular in town just because I don’t go there. That to me is dumb, just let people enjoy stuff.